baby baking week 29, 30, 31 and finding silver linings…
This week brought to you by… the sofa.
Stats: Weeks pregnant: 31 and days.
Waist : 48 at the bellybutton ish
And bust/hips (just for grins and giggles): 44 and 46 (+1).
Average number of times I get up to pee per night: sad face.
Size of the baby bean: 16.5 ish inches
Weight: 3.5 to 5 lb
Position: currently vertex (head down) with feet consistently kicking the crap out of my right side. (LOA for you birthy types)
Other pregnancy related crap:
Emotional crap: Crying. Lots of crying. And preparing. For birth and for having two little people and 3 big people. Making me a mother of FIVE. Five children.
Physical crap: Typical pregnancy stuff. I’m getting short of breath. It’s hard to move and sleep. I have to pee 6,243 times a day. And the pelvis thing. It’s been rough. Even though the pelvic stuff is improved over the last update it’s still really hard to move and I definitely cannot do my normal activity. I’ve been seeing the chiropractor weekly and resting as much as possible. We hired a housekeeper that is coming every two weeks which, despite my initial reservations, is AWESOME. I’ve been knitting and doing little things (small nesting you might. Cleaning our one drawer or closet. etc). NOW the silver lining… there are a lot of positives to be found here. This pain has forced my slow down. Since I am not a ‘take it easy’ person being forced to take it easy has been a blessing to some degree. I am able to enjoy Max’s movements and enjoy Ella’s development. I’m more available for my big kids. And even though I’ve had to depend on Matt much much more he has risen to the challenge of taking care of all he can and oddly being forced to be a little dependent on him has actually been a really good thing. Also, it’s nice to have time to be creative and sew, knit and decorate. I’ve made lots of things for Max and other friends babies and I’m working on things for Ella and the house too.
Here are a few:
Kids hands. Excited to add Max’s to this :)
Bunting to go with the hands.
Hat and tiny socks.
Max’s blanket #1.
See. Productive. SO not JUST sitting. Also HELLO I learned to knit SOCKS. OMG SOCKS.
Also despite all the usual discomforts of being largely pregnant and the pelvis thing I don’t feel TERRIBLE. I actually think I feel better than I did with Ella at this point. The forced rest I’m sure is helping. At 29 weeks with Ella I was taken off work and I was READY to be off work. It was hot. I was huge and miserable.
What I want to devour: Ice. and all food. What makes me want to hurl: Orange juice. OMG. I want to drink it SO BAD. and it makes me SO SICK.
Supplements: Prenatal (from trader joes). Calcium-Magnesium (with D) pills (2). And my friend, the Prevacid. Also drinking Yogi Mother’s Tea now. Will start the birth prep in a couple of weeks. More on that later.
Activity: Let’s not talk about it. Unless getting up and down counts as activity. Walking up and down stairs is like HARD.
Boy? Or girl?: BOY. Still Name: Maxwell MAX!!
In other news: If Ella doesn’t kill herself falling off of something, she may kill me. Seriously. The kid has no fear. We have added TWO more gates to confine her to the family room so she can’t climb the dining table because I simply cannot get to her quick enough to protect her. I do NOT love gates but I hate stitches more. And blood. And broken things. Like bones.
BABY PREP: nothing new. All the clothes are washed, folded and put away. He has enough. Not too many ‘outfits’ but plenty of sleepers, gowns and a few kimonos and onesies. I’m working on a second blanket and will be ordering the birth kit this week. Whoa. Will be buying my friend Jenny’s bouncy chair.Even though I mostly always wear my babies it’s really nice to have a safe place to put them for things like hot oven cooking and showering. I’d love to have a Moses basket but at the price they are I think I’ll skip it.
Tandem nursing update (BOOBS): No real changes there. Still colostrum. Still nursing. I’m really hopeful now that we will be able to tandem. With just a couple of months left in the pregnancy it doesn’t seem like Ella plans to give up. This is exciting for me NO daunting. I’m actually hoping her nursing will help us with the transition to having a new baby in the house. I get sore. And positioning is a challenge but we are working with what we have and it works fine.
And here’s the belly photo(s): Week 29: Week 30: week 31:
Despite the fact that I LOOK huge I don’t really FEEL like he’s huge. Weird.